2 Corinthians 12:10 writes “for when I am weak, then I am strong”. 
It certainly is paradoxical thinking but we can be empowered by God to “live WITH your weakness but not IN weakness” if we choose to believe in Him.
Totally our choice: be empowered in our circumstance that we cannot control,change,comprehend OR be entrapped by all the above.  The option isn’t always a simple removal of what is happening – we, most times, are required to live in the midst of it. 
Choose wisely, then,  I’d say.