Fences

Here is a short quote I just read about boundaries that I felt was too good to keep to myself!

“Setting a boundary differs from building a wall because with a boundary we are still able to communicate and be open to reconciliation.

A wall completely cuts off any interaction, which is not what Jesus came to do.

But healthy boundaries are like fences, with gates that allow access in both directions.”

(The 365 Most Important Bible Passages for Mothers 154)

What an incredible visual this presents!

I see a fence swinging both ways…although, sometimes, they do seem to get stuck don’t they? Requiring a little extra push to open it~especially if it hasn’t been used in awhile.

If a relationship needs to be separated by a fence but that fence seems more like a door, don’t forget about it… do basic maintenance on it:

  • Check in the person casually
  • Pray for that person
  • Respond simply if they reach out

I don’t know if I was the only one who benefitted from reading this today or not, but it is sure is a good reminder!

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